Michael Kleinmann: PHOTOS: Men's Underwear Goes Red for Summer
Wynonna Judd's 33 Wildest Stage Costumes
Recent Comments:
Shirtless Justin Bieber Shows Off New Religious Ink {PopEater}
May 25th 2011 7:17PM Ye shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor print any marks upon you: I [am] the LORD
Leviticus 19:28
Nick and Joe Jonas Bare it all in Hawaii {PopEater}
Apr 28th 2011 4:29PM Malaki,
No. Thats what is in the chin stubble....
Nick and Joe Jonas Bare it all in Hawaii {PopEater}
Apr 21st 2011 7:40PM Joe! Look I can still see the wax on your tumtum. What? no Hair?
Is Drake Hip-Hop's Next Superstar? {PopEater}
Jun 14th 2010 9:07PM Where did you get GAY from? And what would that matter?
Ed Niles-Designed Home, Beverly Hills, Estate of the Day {Luxist}
Jun 6th 2010 8:48AM A nudist would love this home.....
'I Discovered My Husband Was Gay' {Lemondrop}
Jun 5th 2010 10:06PM My boyfriend got married eleven years ago. We had been dating two years when that occurred. He now has a child age two. He comes to see me once or twice a week and phones daily. Yes He is black. Yes his church says gay is the worst sin. Yes he married to please his Mom, Family and Black culture. His words, not mine. He says he loves me. I know I do love him. I have for thirteen years. I am a white male, and I have known this man for twenty five years. I knew him as a teen and I knew he was gay then. He was engaged once prior, she was killed in a car accident. He contacted me, and a year later we made love. I thought he had come to a decision and would follow his heart and nature. I did not understand the family, religion, culture pressure. i am glad he is in my life though. As two men not living together we have been able to follow carriers we otherwise may not have, we have no money or power issues. We have the time we spend as time for each other. Certainly I would have liked to introduce him to my family, few know him, our mutual friends are mostly from my life. not his. Not his family. I do know his Dad and I am sure he knows and is quiet about it to keep up the appearance that he is OK and could not have a gay son. i am sure his Mom knew. She saw us talking when he was still a teen and I felt her follow his gaze across my body, settling on my crotch. I know she knew. I was certin then as well. But he is fifteen years younger and I kept very cool and business like for years. He was twenty eight went he came to me. I thought he had decided to be who he is. I was wrong. Yet, I won't change a thing. I will continue to enjoy his company, calls, and body. Just as his wife has. It's not complicated. I love him, he loves me, he loves what his wife provides. She allows Continued open door to his Black life and all that it is. I ask that the Black community get real. You have black gay and lesbian members. They follow the DL code to remain community members. Accept them as they are, support them as whole people, not lesser. I know if my guy came out now or at anytime in the past, he would have lost his brothers and sisters. His Dad would no longer speak to him. His black friends would not be our friends for two reasons, he'd be gay and I'm white. We've talked about race. Certainly I see his and he mine. he is no lesser than I. I am not a prize to him. (The black boy servant, or the i can get me a white man syndrome) I am sorry to say that the Lie works for us right now. It has been tweaked over the years, and will be in the future as his child grows, it will need to be, if we continue. At this moment I see that it will continue. At this moment the bed still smells of "us". At this moment he is at his marital home cooking dinner. I'm sure he can still taste me on his lips.
To his wife I'm sorry he has taken you falsely. I am sorry I did not know you married him till your second anniversary. I am sorry that his lie will hurt you much more than me should it come to that. I have no legal ties, emotional, yes. I was hurt when I found out he dated and married. I felt that he and I would never be under one roof anyway because of his culture and family, that helped him keep you from me for so long. But it also made it easer to continue the relationship. I am the "lucky' one i guess, I know what I have, a piece, a small part of his life. I have his heart too. You have some more time than I do, however it is full of carriers, and your child. I have five or six hours a week without interruption. I have the daily calls when he picks up you child at daycare. and before you get home from work. I have thought of somehow letting you know whats happening. I have thought about having him next to me every night. I know that will never be. I know that if you were to separate he and I would continue as we are. I am sure he would begin a relationship with another woman. I am sure he could not stand up to the pressure of being a gay black man. Society must change before you can expect the DL syndrome to end. Gay Blacks must be accepted and remain part of the family's they cherish. Then, and only then, will we all be free to be as we are.
Rockland Estate, Estate of the Day {Luxist}
May 30th 2010 8:32PM lovely property and home.
La Ronda Razed {Luxist}
Oct 2nd 2009 10:05PM Some people have too much money and no class...
Queen Anne, Estate of the Day {Luxist}
Feb 5th 2008 7:46PM The granite is "book-matched". A very elegant treatment used in wood for many years. It is an excellent use of this treatment here, stunning!
