Jun 20th 2007 9:59AM I think if you can give your kids something, then do it. I have spoiled my daughter every minute of her life and still I get complimented on her behavior from friends, family, teachers, and strangers. She never throws fits, always giving and sharing. She understands that we work hard to give her these things. Just because her parties are not in the backyard does not make her spoiled! It is how you teach your child that counts!